I suppose it depends on your personality. Because what are Mormons about. I hope it all works out for you. Same boat, if we have plans, he usually ends up. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. Ask Mormon Girl is the blog of author Joanna Brooks. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. And if he loves you as much as you love him. She's really attractive, too. I just found your blog.
Marriage is hard, period. Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. Note, her mind and TSCC were married first. This makes me so sad.
Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation. It is hard work. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. How do you maintain a healthy balance with relationships and work when your partner has a more demanding profession than you.
Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. I think you need to sit down and have a conversation with him about all of this, because that's truly the only way to get to the bottom of it and make a decision for yourself. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. They are an essential part of my existence The part that among all the heartbreak and death and pain of my patients, makes me feel like a human being, worthy of having my own life. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered.